A practical guide of how to get started in finger flogging. Practice, be creative and enjoy!

110 kilos, 20 years of experience—and still not satisfied.
This session was about finding out exactly where his limit really was.

Whose pleasure are we really serving when we pick up a flogger—theirs, or our own? A personal exploration of service, sadism, and the delicate (and necessary) balance of energy exchange in impact play.

What to watch out for when buying, and where to buy floggers.

My essay about why enjoying the bliss-high is different from the pain high, what mazochism (and sadism) is, and what is not. The limitations of the system of brakes, and overreactive empathy, as a limiting factor for service-oriented tops.

A testimonial about the power of letting go - from the receiver’s side.

From tea and nervous chatter to opera-paced flogging and deep bliss, it’s a story about consent, trust, and the subtle shift from control to surrender.

Margaret Thatcher is the first rosebud finger flogger—possibly in the world. Read on to discover why crafting a high-quality pair takes so much work, and why I chose this name in the first place.

What if dominance is not defined by force, but by presence? Space holding in impact play is about leadership, invitation over controlling and above all: connection. Perhaps it is time to re-define dominance.

A short pre-screen talk sets the foundation for safety, trust, and shared intention. This post is a quick guide how to clarify boundaries, establish communication systems, discuss consent for markings, and align on the emotional and physical goals of the scene and how to treat those sexual energies.

The dance between the parasympathetic and the sympathetic nervous system, together with trust, intimacy and tantric breath transforms the drops of pain into drops of pleasure. But how?