Monsieur Butch’s Testimonial

I am always grateful to hear my receiver’s perspective on the same session… Especially from a receiver with 15+ years of being a Top (and topnoch!) impact player.

And as always, without editing.

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I got a private session and as a D-type person who doesn’t switch, this in itself is curious. I had learned about Hekate’s approach and I was truely thrilled about the deep insights and the scientific background to everything she does. But during the session this only gave me the security and the base for trust, Hekate builds upon so eloquently and incredibly caring. Her style and session design and communication are truely unique and her technical or practical proficiency can only be described as absolutely professional in the most charming and laid back way. That in itself is pretty amazing. I will not talk about warm up and adjustment because this is just the prelude to what her style is all about. She calls it “altered state of mind” and oh dear, is she right about that. I had no need for pain or spanking in general but her flogging just rides the wave of impact without painplay, at least in our agreed setting, by proper preparation, rhythm, supportive intense music, and incredible timing and awareness and sensitivity.

The result is nothing I have ever experienced before - and I’ve been around a bit. The neurohormonal rush and high this created, assisted by the breathing techniques she supplied as well, leads into a flow like trance that I can only describe as sort of a transcendent experience. Within my body but at the same time with a traveling mind and soul that floated in pure bliss and joy. I was high for a considerate amount of time afterwards and it lingered for a day or almost two. If you get one of those sessions: Do not get in a car or train right away after this.

I’d always pay good money for this and I’d always advocate for any top to get that experience for themselves because it is mind boggling and I am so looking forward to taking someone there. Even though it’s clear to me that this will always only be a miniature version of what Hekate creates due to her specific approach and her intriguing personality.

Still not a Switch but stating proudly with the utmost respect for the art, that Hekate is the one person I’d get into a setting with at any time.

This truely changed my perspective on impactplay and flogging in particular. This has nothing to do with what’s around in the scene or other circles, I frequented so far. You would have to see or experience it. And I am incredibly thankful for this broadening of my perspective. 

I absolutely, without any doubt at all, recommend this from the bottom of my heart and it’s a privilege getting to experience this.

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And here is my perspective as the giver.