Because not everything is a mystery in impact play.
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The neurochemistry of pain, the psychology of desire, and the craft of practice—the foundation beneath (almost) everything I do.
Fifty Shades of Pain
My essay about why enjoying the bliss-high is different from the pain high, what mazochism (and sadism) is, and what is not. The limitations of the system of brakes, and overreactive empathy, as a limiting factor for service-oriented tops.