FAQ — Practical Questions
of the Salon of Earthly Delights
Do I have to take part in any play?
No. You are never required to take part in any activity. You may watch, rest, connect, talk, or do nothing at all. Follow your own pace and desires.
Can I come with a partner or partners?
Yes. You may arrive with a partner or partners. Each person must register and hold their own ticket. Being partners does not replace consent — consent is still required for every interaction unless explicitely agreed otherwise.
Is consent really required for everything?
Yes. All interaction must be consensual. Consent must be explicit, enthusiastic and ongoing. You must ask before touching, engaging, or changing intensity. Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
What if I change my mind during a scene?
You may stop a scene at any time, for any reason. You can say STOP or RED, and the scene must stop immediately.
Is watching allowed?
Yes. This is a public space and respectful watching is allowed. Watchers must keep distance and not interfere. If someone asks you to step back, you must do so immediately.
What if I feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed?
Step away from the situation. A calm space outside the play areas is available for grounding and rest. You may also ask a Firefly, Alchemist, or Mentor for support.
Is sex allowed in the space?
Yes. Consensual sexual interactions are allowed, but it is never a must. All rules around consent, negotiation, safety and hygiene apply. Safer sex is expected as the default unless agreed otherwise.
Is this a sober event?
Remaining sober is strongly encouraged. You must be clear enough to give and read consent at all times. If there is doubt about your capacity, do not play.
Can I use toys or equipment that are not mine?
Only with explicit permission from the owner. Permission once does not mean permission again. Always follow the owner’s rules for use.
Do I need to negotiate and do aftercare?
Yes. Pre-scene negotiation is required. Aftercare is strongly recommended and part of responsible play. Stay open to adjusting aftercare if needs change.
What should I bring?
Please bring:
the toys you wish to use
safer sex supplies
lube, if needed
a towel if you want to shower
a sarong or cloth to place under you during play
Soap and disinfectant will be available.
Is there a dress code?
We encourage wearing something intentional that supports the erotic, ritual nature of the space and feels comfortable for you. Outfits may express who you are or signal openness to interaction, if you wish.
What happens if someone breaks the rules?
Essential Rules protect consent and safety. If someone breaks them, they may be asked to leave immediately and may be excluded from future events.
Who can I talk to if something feels off?
You can always approach:
a Firefly for grounding and emotional support
an Alchemist for guidance in the play areas
a Mentor for advice or experience-based support
They are there to support the space.