KINK COACHING FOR COUPLES
From first curiosity to confident play, guided step by step.
Maybe one of you has been carrying a fantasy for years and doesn’t know how to say it out loud. Maybe you’ve both been curious, tried a few things, and felt a little lost. Or maybe things are good, and you’re ready to explore further, together.
Kink can bring a couple closer than almost anything else. It asks you to talk honestly about desire, to trust each other at the edge, and to discover sides of yourselves you didn’t know were there. Doing that well takes more than courage. It takes good communication, listening, acceptance, and a few practical skills.
That’s where I come in.
I guide couples through exactly this process: finding your shared language, understanding what each of you really wants, and learning how to play safely, consciously, and with a lot of pleasure and laughter. Whether you’re complete beginners or already experienced, the sessions are shaped around the two of you.
This is coaching, not therapy. If something comes up that needs therapeutic support, I’ll tell you openly and point you to the right place.
I’m a psychologist with a PhD, a professional domina, and a facilitator of conscious kink spaces in Berlin. For a long time, I’ve been teaching impact play to couples, and again and again, they ended up asking about something deeper: power. How to lead, how to surrender, how to bring a D/s dynamic into their relationship without losing themselves or each other. That’s why I created this offering. Through my Salon, Garden and Agora events, I’ve watched many couples play, connect and sometimes get stuck, and I’ve learned what helps them grow together. I bring all of that into our sessions: the knowledge of the psychologist, the hands-on skill of the practitioner, and a deep respect for what happens between two people at the edge so that they can grow together, not apart.
What we might explore together
Getting started
We’re curious, but where do we even begin?
What’s the difference between kink, BDSM and “spicing things up”?
How do we know what’s safe to try as beginners?
We tried something once and it felt awkward. Was it us, or the way we did it?
Desire and communication
How do I tell my partner about a fantasy without scaring them?
What if what I want feels embarrassing, or even wrong?
How do we talk about sex and kink without it turning into a dry survey?
What if we want different things?
Roles and dynamics
How do we find out who is dominant, who is submissive, or whether we switch?
How do we keep a power dynamic playful without it spilling into everyday conflicts?
What happens if one of us doesn’t feel comfortable with the role they are supposed to take?
Safety and trust
How do safewords actually work in practice?
What is aftercare, and why does it matter so much?
How do we play with pain or intensity without really hurting each other?
What if old wounds or difficult feelings come up during play?
Long-term
How do we keep things exciting after the first thrill wears off?
Can kink really make our relationship stronger, beyond the bedroom?
How do we explore other people or kink spaces, like parties or events, as a couple?
The Packages
FOR CURIOUS BEGINNERS
TASTER SESSION
A first step into kink as a couple. Bring your questions, your curiosity, even your doubts. Nothing is too personal. If you’d like, we can split part of the time so each of you can talk to me alone. Also available as a gift voucher.
FORMAT
Online
LENGTH
2 hours
PRICE:
390 € per couple
Value at my regular rates: 600 €
READY TO GO DEEPER?
ONLINE PACKAGE
Two couple sessions and a private talk with each of you. We explore your desires and boundaries together, then I speak with each of you alone, so nothing important stays unsaid. In the second session, we bring it all together: consent, negotiation, aftercare, and a first introduction to the practices you’re curious about. All from the comfort of your home. Also available as a gift voucher.
FORMAT
Online
LENGTH
2 × 2 hours together + 30 min each alone
PRICE:
890 € per couple
Value at my regular rates: 1,500 €
PREFER TO MEET FACE-TO-FACE?
IN-PERSON PACKAGE
Two couple sessions in person in Berlin, either in a private coaching room or in your own home, plus a private talk with each of you. Together we explore your desires and boundaries, and in the second session we bring it all together: consent, negotiation, aftercare, and a first introduction to the practices you’re curious about. Also available as a gift voucher.
FORMAT
In person in Berlin (at your home or at a coaching location)
LENGTH
2 × 2 hours together + 30 min each alone
PRICE:
1,090 € per couple
Value at my regular rates: 1,500 €
WANT TO TRY THEORY?
HANDS-ON PACKAGE
Everything from the coaching packages, plus a guided practice session in a fully equipped BDSM studio. After two couple sessions (online or in person) and a private talk with each of you, we move from talking to doing. In the studio, you try out what you’ve been curious about, with me by your side to guide, demonstrate and keep you safe. Also available as a gift voucher.
FORMAT
Online or in person + BDSM studio in Berlin
LENGTH
5 hours + 2 hours at the Studio
PRICE:
1,590 € per couple
Value at my regular rates: 1,500 €
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WHAT CLIENTS SAY
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” We are very happy about our decision to come to Budapest and to have the workshop with you in such a private and welcoming setting. We truly appreciated your: relaxed attitude and style warm smile and empathy, which immediately built trust professional guidance way of explaining things For sure this will have an IMPACT on our further thinking, feelings, experiences and emotions.”
Noah & Yvonne
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"We will never touch our floggers the same way again after having the workshop with you! We are truly grateful for diagnosing how differently we like to receive impact, what our personal triggers are and how to keep each other held when emotions flow".
Nina & Jonas